This workshop is part educational, and a large part experiential, so come prepared to actively participate! We'll talk about the level system and how to play well with others while also taking care of yourself at erotic events, discuss and practice how to handle when something goes wrong, go through a self-touch erotic exploration, and give you a chance to negotiate some (potentially) erotic online play with other attendees. As always, all activities are optional, or can be modified to work better for your needs, but we definitely recommend participating as much as you can in the activities to get the most out of this class. 

Please note: everyone in attendance at this class needs to already be an L2 member in a sex positive chapter or have attended both the SPW Orientation and Awesome Boundaries classes previously offered by Sex Positive World. Once you RSVP, we will confirm your status before sending you a zoom link to attend the class. 

Completion of this class, along with the recommendation of the facilitators who have gotten to know you here in this community space, enables you to attend Level 3 online Sex Positive World events.

Event Details

We’ll begin this class by getting to know each other better after going over some online etiquette.

During the first hour and a half we will have some discussion, exercises, and faciliated experiences centered on the leveling system, what to expect and how to engage at erotic events, and how to navigate consent for yourself and others.

Some questions we'll cover:

WHY do Sex Positive World and our Sex Positive chapters have a Level system for members and events?

WHAT makes an event Level 1, 2, 3 or 4?

HOW does it feel to find, cultivate and navigate erotic energy in online space?

WHO is responsible (spoiler alert: everyone) for figuring out how to have well boundaried, satisfying, sexy experiences online?

WHEN we speak up about something, what are some of the best ways to convey desires and handle upsets within ourselves and others?

We’ll take a mid-class stretch and break and then return to explore:

TIPS AND ONLINE TRICKS: Hear what we have already figured out about how to make a video screen virtual event as sexy and satisfying as possible.

THE PLAY BOX: Then it will be time to put everything we’ve learned and experienced so far into action.

You'll have opportunities to be the voyeur, navigator and instigator of fun and playful sexy experiences online and then time to reflect back on what worked best for you and what brought up challenges.

As we check out from the event we’ll be sharing helpful details about the L3 events coming up so you’ll feel in-the-know on how they will go.

What to expect at this event:

This class is experiential, not lecture and listen.  It’s less about taking notes and more about taking note of what works best for you to be in a sexy state of mind in virtual space.

There are self touch exercises and opportunities in several parts of this class so please come to the event in soft, comfortable clothing that you feel sexy in and select an environment to be Zooming from that you and others attending will find private and comfortable enough to relax into eroticism.

Nudity or touch of any particular part of your body is not a requirement of this class. We will be clear about when states of undress and erotic types of touch are a negotiated possibility.  You always have the right to pass on any suggested activity and to adjust activities and exercises to best suit your own learning style.

A sex positive life during a pandemic takes creativity, and it helps to have a playful and respectful community to explore, learn and grow with. See you on the screen!